How to Guide :
If you clicked on this article you either clicked
because:
A.
You’re
single and you CAN’T wait to be married. You see your married friends, and
their beautiful home and you desire for that to be you soon. Your prayer
regarding marriage sounds something like this ‘’Lord I’m ready to be married
now.’’…..or something along those lines.
Or..
B.
You’re
single and content but wondered where I might be going with this.
Well it’s not ridiculous. There is a
guide to finding your husband ladies. It’s straight to the point and works
every time. It’s as simple as this: YOU don’t find your husband. This is a game
of tag and well, you’re not it. As a matter fact the only thing you’re looking
for is a relationship with God. The man will find you. Now before you leave
this page disappointed hear my heart. The Lords timing is impeccable. There’s
nothing quite like allowing God to move and have His way when he gets ready to
have His way, His way. We trust God to supply our needs and give us the desires
of our hearts. When he blesses us financially, helps us overcome obstacles,
gets us that job we've been praying for, everything’s is just beautiful and
we’re so grateful ( ‘’Thank you Lord for coming through for me so quickly.’’)
But when he preserves us, makes us wait longer than usual, or sets us aside for
a season then something must not be right. Now here we go trying to get in the
way of His plan, His perfect plan might I add. We can’t just wait for God to do
His thing, we have to go out and find what we want because we know what’s best
for us anyway. He’s either A. ‘’forgotten about me’’ or B. ‘’He is taking too
long and I’m ready now’’. I have news for you; you’re only wasting time and
instead of helping you’re actually complicating things. Something that might’ve
taken God 6 months to do has now turned into a year because you've decided to
venture off and do your ‘’own thing’’. Tell me; how far has doing your own
thing taken you? Instead of waiting like we should we settle for the first
person that shows interest or for the first person who fits OUR ideal
standards (6’5 and athletic built or 5’11 and somewhat muscular, chocolate
brown skinned, caramel light skinned, making $80,000 min, no kids, no dog,
musically inclined, stylish, no country accent, with an accent , must be
into fitness ( but you haven’t visited the gym in about a year), no tattoos, nice
cut, no hair, nice feet, soft hands.) Just stop, take a deep breath, and
refocus. Take yourself out of the equation for a second because it’s not about
you. Even when you’re married it won’t be about you. God made us to be pursued.
Trust me, there’s something special about the person God has for you hearing
the following words of confirmation‘’ son, that’s her.’’ Keep this in mind: Our
God is a God that cannot fail; He knows exactly what He’s doing. If you think
back for a second you’ll realize he hasn't failed you yet. Why would He walk
away from you now? Enjoy the season you’re in. Being married is such a
beautiful blessing but so is being single. This is the time God will use to
guide you and mold you into the woman He desires for you to be. Don’t let desperation
get in the way of this immense opportunity to grow, learn and make mistakes all
while it’s just you and God. When it’s time, His time, he’ll send you that
special person. And you’re marriage will glorify Him. Instead of your prayer
being ‘’Lord I’m ready to be married now…’’Let your prayer sound something like
this: Lord I know you have a plan for me, and I know that you know of my desire
to be a wife. Lord teach me to wait on you. Teach me to stay in my place in
this season. Teach me to be the wife you would have me to be. While I’m waiting
draw me closer to you. I know I’m not alone because you accompany me. Your word
comforts me and in you I find hope. I want to please you Lord. Lead the way and
I will follow. I pray that the lifestyle I live is pleasing in your eyes and
that one day I will be the wife you would have me to be.
-Your Bride
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